Why I Don’t Box My Work Into One Style
When I first started photographing families, my work was fully documentary.
I was drawn to showing things as they were, without direction or interference. Over time, though, I noticed that while many families preferred the feeling of a fly-on-the-wall session, some wanted more guidance. Being photographed can feel vulnerable, and they felt more at ease and themselves with a bit of help.
I didn’t expand my approach to make everyone feel included or to fit a trend. I expanded it because meeting people where they are is something that I love to do. I like reading a room and adjusting in real time, and my integration of guided-but-still-somehow-candid-feeling photo sessions grew from that place.
For me, it’s not a departure from documentary work. It’s an extension of it. It keeps the focus on real connection, while offering enough guidance to help families relax into the experience instead of wondering what to do.
For many families across New York City and surrounding areas, that balance makes the experience feel not only doable, but exciting, easeful, and fun.
Lifestyle Family Photography Is About the Experience First
Lifestyle family photography is a perfect mix between posed sessions and documentary work.
There is intention in how the session unfolds, but it isn’t rigid. I may suggest where to stand based on light, or invite you to sit together in a way that feels natural. The focus stays on interaction rather than instruction.
Because the experience adapts to the people in front of the camera, no two sessions look the same. What works for one family might not work for another, and that flexibility is part of the point.
What a Lifestyle Session Looks Like in Practice
Lifestyle family photography may look unposed, but it’s not accidental. The session moves at the pace of the family, not the other way around. I guide when it’s helpful and step back when it isn’t. Prompts are simple and flexible, designed to support interaction rather than direct it. Most families experience the session as sweet time spent together, not time spent being photographed.
The goal isn’t a single perfect frame. It’s a collection of images that reflect how your family connects when no one is trying to get it right.
As a New York family photographer, this is the balance I work toward in every lifestyle session. Here is an example of a short and sweet mother and son session.
A Focus on Connection, Not Presentation
Lifestyle family photography tends to resonate with families who want photos that feel true to their day-to-day life. It can be a strong option if traditional posing feels uncomfortable, or if you want images that reflect connection rather than presentation.
This approach doesn’t require anyone to change who they are. It works best when families are allowed to show up as they are already.
Want to Try Seeing Your Life This Way at Home?
If this approach speaks to you, you don’t need to wait for a session to start noticing meaningful moments.
I’ve created a free guide that walks families through taking better photos at home, using the light and routines they already have. It’s designed to help you notice connection as it happens, without pressure or perfection.
You can download the free guide below and start experimenting on your own. Have fun, and let me know how it goes!
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